Marc Silver
A newly diagnosed cancer patient is overwhelmed and in shock, no matter what kind of cancer it is. How people closest to us react and try to encourage us can be either helpful or devastating. That’s when we hand the spouse or friend this wonderful book to help educate our caregivers to talk more kindly to us. A person who is diagnosed at a stage of cancer that can only be controlled but not cured is not helped by, “You’ll be fine, you’re going to beat this!”. Rather, hearing, “I love you, you’re strong, and I’m with you all the way,” is much better. The book helps us talk smarter to new friends who are also dealing with cancer.