September 2023
My journey with ovarian cancer began at the beginning of 2021. I would like to share how my cancer was diagnosed, the amazing care I received, where I am today, and what I have learned personally.
My initial symptoms mirror those of so many with ovarian cancer. I experienced intestinal issues, something I have had since I was about nine-years-old. I went on the FODMAP diet (no gluten, no lactose) to no avail. My primary care physician then scheduled a colonoscopy. By the time of the test, I gained about a pound a day over 10 days in fluids. Not surprisingly, the colonoscopy was clean. My gastroenterologist then suggested I have an ultrasound. After two days with no follow-up from him or his office, I called his office and requested an immediate CT scan. The scheduler indicated they were 10 days out in the Boise area. I stated it was urgent, and I would drive to any facility even if it was 100 miles away. I was scheduled for the next day—it was Friday, March 12. On Sunday, I had difficulty breathing and called my primary care physician early Monday morning for an appointment (which I was able to get at 10:00am). I learned that same morning of my ovarian cancer diagnosis. When I got to my primary care physician, he was also aware and was tremendously supportive. I asked him who he would want to have care for his wife given the same circumstances. He asked if I had a few minutes to wait – in that time, he was able to have the medical director of the gynecology/oncology department of our cancer institute agree to work with me. My care journey started that morning. I was in the hospital starting that afternoon for four days. I left knowing I had stage 3C high-grade serous carcinoma; my ascites had been drained; my first chemo had occurred, and I knew I had an extraordinary care team. Following a complete chemo regime and surgery, I had 18 months of Avastin maintenance therapy every three weeks. All curative and maintenance care lasted for two complete years ending in February of this year. As of September 1st, I’ll have been cancer free for two years post chemo…. a landmark I had been told I probably would not reach given statistics for my specific type of cancer.
I would like to focus also on what I learned during the past 2 ½ years. Until my diagnosis at age 71, I had never been seriously ill, my health was still considered excellent, and there was no history of breast or ovarian cancer in my family. I did learn through DNA testing that I had none of the known cancer markers. It’s a cancer that needs so much more research to help with diagnosis, as well as a cure. I was told I had a 50/50 chance of surviving two years and had to really consider my own mortality. I allowed myself to grieve that potential; then, I was determined to stay positive and focus on my treatments. My cancer journey reinforced my awareness of my optimism, my strength, and my extraordinary family and friends. I kept all the numerous cards and notes I received – I call it my “love basket.” That basket is a daily reminder of my fortunate life – a life dedicated to family, friends, colleagues, neighbors, and to all of those who enter my life. Do I still worry about recurrence? I’ve accepted it is more likely than not, and I am hopeful there will be continued treatment advances when I may need them. The adage “one day at a time” is a mantra to which I live.